Does your dog jump on guests, steal food from counters, or lunge at squirrels on walks? If so, they might need help learning impulse control. The good news? Teaching your dog to think before they act is easier than you might expect—and it can even be fun!
Impulse control refers to a dog’s ability to pause and make better decisions instead of reacting immediately to excitement or temptation. Just like children need to learn patience, dogs also require practice to develop self-control. The great news is that you can teach these skills through simple games that can easily be incorporated into your daily routine.
1. The Name Game
A great way to start building impulse control in your dog is to teach them to respond reliably to their name. Use a happy tone when you say their name. When they turn towards you, reward them with a treat or praise. This practice encourages your dog to check in with you rather than making impulsive decisions.
2. It’s Your Choice
This game teaches dogs patience. Start by holding a handful of treats in your closed fist. Your dog may sniff, paw, or nudge at your hand, but wait until they back off or look away before you open your hand and give them a treat. With time, they will learn that calm behavior is rewarded while pushy behavior is not.
3. Wait for It
Before giving your dog their food, opening the door, or tossing a toy, ask them to wait briefly. Start with just a second or two, then gradually increase the time. Reward them for staying still until released with a cue like “okay.” This helps build patience in everyday situations.
4. Leave It
Teaching “leave it” helps dogs resist temptation. Hold a treat in your hand and close it when your dog tries to take it. As soon as they stop trying, reward them with a different treat from your other hand. Once they understand, introduce the phrase “leave it” to reinforce the concept. With practice, your dog will learn that ignoring something often leads to an even better reward.
5. Two-Cookie Game
This game helps dogs learn to refocus quickly. Start by asking your dog to perform a simple behavior like “sit.” When they do it correctly, mark the behavior with a word like “yes” and give them a treat. As soon as they finish eating the treat, take a few steps back and encourage them to come to you for a second treat. This game fosters engagement and reinforces positive choices.
Practicing these simple games for just a few minutes daily can make a big difference in your dog’s behavior. Not only will they develop better self-control, but you’ll also build a stronger connection with them.
If you’d like more guidance on impulse control and other key life skills, our Basic Manners class is a great way to set your dog up for success. In the meantime, grab some treats and have fun training!
Nicole Wiebusch CPDT-KA is a certified professional dog trainer, based on the Iron Range. See more at goldenpawsdogtraining.com